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1、01.RemembertosaythankyouHi.Imheretotalktoyouabouttheimptanceofpraiseadmirationthankyouhavingitbespecificgenuine.thewayIgotinterestedinthiswasInoticedinmyselfwhenIwasgrowingupuntilaboutafewyearsagothatIwouldwanttosaythank
2、youtosomeoneIwouldwanttopraisethemIwouldwanttotakeintheirpraiseofmeIdjuststopit.IaskedmyselfwhyIfeltshyIfeltembarrassed.thenmyquestionbecameamItheonlyonewhodoesthisSoIdecidedtoinvestigate.Imftunateenoughtowkintherehabfac
3、ilitysoIgettoseepeoplewhoarefacinglifedeathwithaddiction.sometimesitcomesdowntosomethingassimpleastheircewoundistheirfatherdiedwithouteversayinghesproudofthem.Butthentheyhearfromallthefamilyfriendsthatthefathertoldeveryb
4、odyelsethathewasproudofhimbuthenevertoldtheson.Itsbecausehedidntknowthathissonneededtohearit.SomyquestioniswhydontweaskfthethingsthatweneedIknowagentlemanmarriedf25yearswhoslongingtohearhiswifesay“Thankyoufbeingthebreadw
5、innersoIcanstayhomewiththekids“butwontask.Iknowawomanwhosgoodatthis.Sheonceaweekmeetswithherhusbsays“IdreallylikeyoutothankmefallthesethingsIdidinthehousewiththekids.“hegoes“Ohthisisgreatthisisgreat.“praisereallydoeshave
6、tobegenuinebutshetakesresponsibilityfthat.afriendofmineAprilwhoIvehadsincekindergartenshethanksherchildrenfdoingtheirches.shesaid“WhywouldntIthankiteventhoughtheyresupposedtodoit“SothequestioniswhywasIblockingitWhywereot
7、herpeopleblockingitWhycanIsay“IlltakemysteakmediumrareIneedsizesixshoes“butIwontsay“Wouldyoupraisemethisway“itsbecauseImgivingyoucriticaldataaboutme.ImtellingyouwhereIminsecure.ImtellingyouwhereIneedyourhelp.Imtreatingyo
8、umyinnercirclelikeyouretheenemy.BecausewhatcanyoudowiththatdataYoucouldneglectme.Youcouldabuseit.youcouldactuallymeetmyneed.ItookmybikeintothebikesteIlovethissamebiketheyddosomethingcalled“truing“thewheels.Theguysaid“You
9、knowwhenyoutruethewheelsitsgoingtomakethebikesomuchbetter.“IgetthesamebikebacktheyvetakenallthelittlewarpsoutofthosesamewheelsIvehadftwoahalfyearsmybikeislikenew.SoImgoingtochallengeallofyou.Iwantyoutotrueyourwheels:beho
10、nestaboutthepraisethatyouneedtohear.WhatdoyouneedtohearGohometoyourwifegoaskherwhatdoessheneedGohometoyourhusbwhatdoesheneedGohomeaskthosequestionsthenhelpthepeoplearoundyou.itssimple.whyshouldwecareaboutthisWetalkaboutw
11、ldpeace.HowcanwehavewldpeacewithdifferentculturesdifferentlanguagesIthinkitstartshouseholdbyhouseholdunderthesameroof.Soletsmakeitrightinourownbackyard.IwanttothankallofyouinIfthisistruelearningalanguageinchildhoodmaygiv
12、eyouameholisticgraspofitssocialemotionalcontexts.Converselyrecentresearchshowedthatpeoplewholearnedasecondlanguageinadulthoodexhibitlessemotionalbiasamerationalapproachwhenconfrontingproblemsinthesecondlanguagethantheirn
13、ativeone.Butregardlessofwhenyouacquireadditionallanguagesbeingmultilingualgivesyourbrainsomeremarkableadvantages.Someoftheseareevenvisiblesuchhigherdensityofthegraymatterthatcontainsmostofyourbrain’sneuronssynapsesmeacti
14、vityincertainregionswhenengagingasecondlanguage.TheheightenedwkoutabilingualbrainreceivesthroughoutitslifecanalsohelpdelaytheonsetofdiseaseslikeAlzheimersDementiabyasmuchas5years.Theideaofmajcognitivebenefitstobilinguali
15、smmayseemintuitivenowbutitwouldhavesurprisedearlierexperts.Befethe1960sbilingualismwasconsideredahicapthatslowedthechild’sdevelopmentbyfcingthemtospendthemtoomuchenergydistinguishingbetweenlanguagesaviewbasedlargelyonfla
16、wedstudies.whileamerecentstudydidshowthatreactiontimeserrsincreasefsomebilingualstudentsincrosslanguagetestsitalsoshowedthattheefftattentionneededtoswitchbetweenlanguagestriggeredmeactivityinpotentiallystrengthenedthedso
17、lateralprefrontalctex.Thisisthepartofbrainthatplaysalargeroleinexecutivefunctionproblemsolvingswitchingbetweentasksfocusingwhilefilteringoutirrelevantinfmation.Sowhilebilingualmaynotnecessarilymakeyousmarteritdoesmakeyou
18、rbrainmehealthycomplexactivelyengagedevenifyoudidn’thavethegoodftuneoflearningasecondlanguagelikeachildit’snevertoolatetodoyourselfafavmakethelinguisticleapfrom”Hello”to“Hola””Bonjour”“ninhao’s”becausewhenitcomestoourbra
19、insalittleexercisecangoalongway.03.FeatsofmemyanyonecandoIdliketoinviteyoutocloseyoureyes.Imagineyourselfstingoutsidethefrontdoofyourhome.Idlikeyoutonoticethecolofthedothematerialthatitsmadeoutof.Nowvisualizeapackofoverw
20、eightnudistsonbicycles.Theyarecompetinginanakedbicycleracetheyareheadedstraightfyourfrontdo.Ineedyoutoactuallyseethis.Theyarepedalingreallyhardtheyresweatytheyrebouncingaroundalot.theycrashstraightintothefrontdoofyourhom
21、e.Bicyclesflyeverywherewheelsrollpastyouspokesendupinawkwardplaces.Stepoverthethresholdofyourdointoyourfoyeryourhallwaywhateversontheothersideappreciatethequalityofthelight.ThelightisshiningdownonCookieMonster.CookieMons
22、teriswavingatyoufromhisperchontopofatanhse.Itsatalkinghse.Youcanpracticallyfeelhisbluefurticklingyournose.Youcansmelltheoatmealraisincookiethathesabouttoshovelintohismouth.Walkpasthim.Walkpasthimintoyourlivingroom.Inyour
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