l7_if_i_were_a_boy_again

1、IfIwereaboyagainIfIwereaboyagainIwouldpracticeperseverancemeoftennevergiveupathingbecauseitwashardinconvenient.Ifwewantlightwemustconquerdarkness.Perseverancecansometimesequalgeniusinitsresults.“Thereareonlytwocreatures”

2、saysaproverb“whocansurmountthepyras—theeaglethesnail.”IfIwereaboyagainIwouldschoolmyselfintoahabitofattentionIwouldletnothingcomebetweenmethesubjectinh.Iwouldrememberthatagoodskaternevertriestoskateintwodirectionsatonce.

3、Thehabitofattentionbecomespartofourlifeifwebeginearlyenough.Ioftenheargrownuppeoplesay“IcouldnotfixmyattentiononthesermonbookalthoughIwishedtodoso”thereasonisthehabitwasnotfmedinyouth.IfIweretolivemylifeoveragainIwouldpa

4、ymeattentiontothecultivationofthememy.Iwouldstrengthenthatfacultybyeverypossiblemeansoneverypossibleoccasion.Ittakesalittlehardwkatfirsttorememberthingsaccuratelybutmemysoonhelpsitselfgivesverylittletrouble.Itonlyneedsea

5、rlycultivationtobecomeapower.IfIwereaboyagainIwouldcultivatecourage.“Nothingissomildgentleascouragenothingsocruelpitilessascowardice”saysawiseauth.Wetoooftenbrowtroubleanticipatethatmayneverappear.”Thefearofillexceedsthe

6、illwefear.”Dangerswillariseinanycareerbutpresenceofmindwilloftenconquerthewstofthem.Bepreparedfanyfatethereisnoharmtobefeared.IfIwereaboyagainIwouldlookonthecheerfulside.Lifeisverymuchlikeamirr:ifyousmileuponititsmilesba

7、ckuponyoubutifyoufrownlookdoubtfulonityouwillgetasimilarlookinreturn.Innersunshinewarmsnotonlytheheartoftheownerbutofallthatcomeincontactwithit.“Ｗhoshutsloveoutinturnshallbeshutoutfromlove.”IfIwereaboyagainIwouldschoolmy

8、selftosay“no”meoften.Imightwritepagesontheimptanceoflearningveryearlyinlifetogainthatpointwhereayoungboycansterectdeclinedoinganunwthyactbecauseitisunwthy.IfIwereaboyagainIwoulddemofmyselfmecourtesytowardsmycompanionsfri

9、endsindeedtowardsstrangersaswell.Thesmallestcourtesiesalongtheroughroadsoflifearelikethelittlebirdsthatsingtousallwinterlongmakethatseasonoficesnowmeendurable.Finallyinsteadoftryinghardtobehappyasifthatwerethesolepurpose

10、oflifeIwouldifIwereaboyagainIwouldstilltryhardertomakeothershappy.假如我又回到了童年，我做事要更有毅力，決不因?yàn)槭虑槠D難或者麻煩而撒手不干，我們要光明，就得征服黑暗。毅力在效果上有時(shí)能同天才相比。俗話說：“能登上金字塔的生物，只有兩種——鷹和蝸牛?！奔偃缥矣只氐搅送?，我就要養(yǎng)成專心致志的習(xí)慣；有事在手，就決不讓任何東西讓我分心。我要牢記：優(yōu)秀的滑冰手從不試圖同時(shí)滑向兩個(gè)

11、不同的方向。如果及早養(yǎng)成這種專心致志的習(xí)慣，它將成為我們生命的一部分。我常聽成年人說：“雖然我希望能集中注意聽牧師講道或讀書，但往往做不到?！倍蚓褪悄贻p時(shí)沒有養(yǎng)成這種習(xí)慣。假如我現(xiàn)在能重新開始我的生命，我就要更注意記憶力的培養(yǎng)。我要采取一切可能的辦法，并且在一切可能的場(chǎng)合，增強(qiáng)記憶力。要正確無誤地記住一些東西，在開始階段的確要作出一番小小的努力；但要不了多久，記憶力本身就會(huì)起作用，使記憶成為輕而易舉的事，只需及早培養(yǎng)，記憶自會(huì)成為一

12、種才能。假如我又回到了童年，我就要培養(yǎng)勇氣。一位明智的作家曾說過：“世上沒有東西比勇氣更溫文爾雅，也沒有東西比懦怯更殘酷無情?！蔽覀兂３＿^多地自尋煩惱，杞人憂天?！芭碌満Ρ鹊満Ρ旧砀膳??！狈彩露加形ｋU(xiǎn)，但鎮(zhèn)定沉著往往能克服最嚴(yán)重的危險(xiǎn)。對(duì)一切禍福做好準(zhǔn)備，那么就沒有什么災(zāi)難可以害怕的了。假如我又回到了童年，我就要事事樂觀。生活猶如一面鏡子：你朝它笑，它也朝你笑；如果你雙眉緊鎖，向它投以懷疑的目光，它也將還以你同樣的目光。內(nèi)心的歡樂不僅

13、溫暖了歡樂者自己的心，也溫暖了所有與之接觸者的心?！罢l拒愛于門外，也必將被愛拒諸門外。”假如我又回到了童年，我就要養(yǎng)成經(jīng)常說“不”字的習(xí)慣。一個(gè)少年要能挺得起腰，拒絕做不應(yīng)該做的事，就因?yàn)檫@事不值得做。我可以寫上好幾頁(yè)談?wù)勗缒昱囵B(yǎng)這一點(diǎn)的重要性。假如我又回到了童年，我就要要求自己對(duì)伙伴和朋友更加禮貌，而且對(duì)陌生人也應(yīng)如此。在坎坷的生活道路上，最細(xì)小的禮貌猶如在漫長(zhǎng)的冬天為我們歌唱的小鳥，那歌聲使冰天雪地的寒冬變得較易忍受。最后，假如我又