英語經(jīng)典美文背誦100篇007-010

1、Learntoliveinthepresentmoment學(xué)會(huì)生活在現(xiàn)實(shí)中Toalargedegreethemeasureofourpeaceofmindisdeterminedbyhowmuchweareabletoliveonthepresentmoment.Irrespectiveofwhathappenedyesterdaylastyearwhatmaymaynothappentomrowthepresentmomentiswh

2、ereyouarealways!我們內(nèi)心是否平和在很大程度上是由我們是否能生活在現(xiàn)實(shí)之中所決定的不管昨天或去年發(fā)生了什么，不管明天可能發(fā)生或不發(fā)生什么，現(xiàn)實(shí)才是你時(shí)時(shí)刻刻所在之處Withoutquestionmanyofushavemasteredtheneuroticartofspendingmuchofourliveswryingaboutvarietyofthingsallatonce.Weallowpastproblemsfut

3、ureconcernsdominateyourpresentmomentssomuchsothatweendupanxiousfrustrateddepressedhopeless.Ontheflipsidewealsopostponeourgratificationourstatedpriitiesourhappinessoftenconvincingthat“someday“willbemuchbetterthantoday.Unf

4、tunatelythesamementaldynamicsthattellustolooktowardthefuturewillonlyrepeatthemselvessothatsomedayneveractuallyarrives.JhonLennoneoncesaid“Lifeiswhatishappeningwhilewearebusymakingotherplans.“Whenwearebusymakingotherplans

5、ourchildrenarebusygrowingupthepeoplewelovearemovingawaydyingourbodiesaregettingoutofshapeourdreamsareslippingaway.Inshtwemissoutonlife.毫無疑問，我們很多人掌握了一種神經(jīng)兮兮的藝術(shù)，即把生活中的大部分時(shí)間花在為種種事情擔(dān)心憂慮上－－而且常常是同時(shí)憂慮許多事情我們聽?wèi){過去的麻煩和未來的擔(dān)心控制我們此時(shí)此刻的

6、生活，以至我們整日焦慮不安，委靡不振，甚至沮喪絕望而另一方面我們又推遲我們的滿足感，推遲我們應(yīng)優(yōu)先考慮的事情，推遲我們的幸福感，常常說服自己＂有朝一日＂會(huì)比今天更好不幸的是，如此告戒我們朝前看的大腦動(dòng)力只能重復(fù)來重復(fù)去，以至＂有朝一日＂喲貧農(nóng)公元不會(huì)真的來臨約翰列儂曾經(jīng)說過：＂生活就是當(dāng)我們忙于制定別的計(jì)劃時(shí)發(fā)生的事＂當(dāng)我們忙于指定種種＂別的計(jì)劃＂時(shí)，我們的孩子在忙于長大，我們摯愛的人里去了甚至快去世了，我們的體型變樣了，而我們的夢想也

7、在消然溜走了一句話，我們錯(cuò)過了生活Manypeoplelivesasiflifeisadressrehearsalfsomelaterdate.Itisnt.Infactnoonehaveaguaranteethatheshewillbeheretomrow.Nowistheonlytimewehavetheonlytimethatwehaveanycontrolover.Whenweputourattentiononthepresen

8、tmomentwepushfearfromourminds.Fearistheconcernovereventsthatmighthappeninthefuturewewonthaveenoughhmoneyourchildrenwillgetintotroublewewillgetolddiewhatever.許多人的生活好象是某個(gè)未來日子的彩排并非如此事實(shí)上，沒人能保證他或她肯定還活著現(xiàn)在是我們所擁有的唯一時(shí)間，現(xiàn)在也是我們能控制的

9、唯一的時(shí)間當(dāng)我們將注意力放在此時(shí)此刻時(shí)，我們就將恐懼置于腦后恐懼就是我們擔(dān)憂某些事情會(huì)在未來發(fā)生－－我們不諱有足夠的錢，我們的孩子會(huì)惹上麻煩，我們會(huì)變老，會(huì)死去，諸如此類Tocombatfearthebeststradegyistolearntobringyourattentionbacktothepresent.MarkTwainsaid“Ihavebeenthroughsometerriblethingsinlifesomeofwh

10、ichactuallyhappened.“IdontthinkIcansayitanybetter.Practicekeepingyourattentionontheherenow.Yourefftwillpaygreat不論你的生活如何卑賤，你要面對(duì)它生活，不要躲避它，更別用惡言咒罵它。它不像你那樣壞。你最富有的時(shí)候，倒是看似最窮。愛找缺點(diǎn)的人就是到天堂里也能找到缺點(diǎn)。你要愛你的生活，盡管它貧窮。甚至在一個(gè)濟(jì)貧院里，你也還有愉快、高興

11、、光榮的時(shí)候。夕陽反射在濟(jì)貧院的窗上，像身在富戶人家窗上一樣光亮；在那門前，積雪同在早春融化。我只看到，一個(gè)從容的人，在哪里也像在皇宮中一樣，生活得心滿意足而富有愉快的思想。城鎮(zhèn)中的窮人，我看，倒往往是過著最獨(dú)立不羈的生活。也許因?yàn)樗麄兒軅ゴ螅允苤疅o愧。大多數(shù)人以為他們是超然的，不靠城鎮(zhèn)來支援他們；可是事實(shí)上他們是往往利用了不正當(dāng)?shù)氖侄蝸韺?duì)付生活，他們是毫不超脫的，毋寧是不體面的。視貧窮如園中之花而像圣人一樣耕植它吧！不要找新的花樣

12、，無論是新的朋友或新的衣服，來麻煩你自己。找舊的，回到那里去。萬物不變，是我們在變。你的衣服可以賣掉，但要保留你的思想。5父愛和母愛MotherlyFatherlyLoveMotherlylovebyitsverynatureisunconditional.Motherlovesthenewbninfantbecauseitisherchildnotbecausethechildhasfulfilledanyspecificcondit

13、ionliveduptoanyspecificexpectation.Unconditionallovecrespondsinoneofthedeepestlongingsnotonlyofthechildbutofeveryhumanbeingontheotherhtobelovedbecauseofonesmeritbecauseonedeservesitalwaysleavesdoubt:maybeIdidnotpleasethe

14、personwhomIwanttolovememaybethisthatthereisalwaysafearthatlovecoulddisappear.Furtherme“deserved“l(fā)oveeasilyleavesabitterfeelingthatoneisnotlovedfoneselfthatoneislovedonlybecauseonepleasesthatoneisinthelastanalysisnotloved

15、atallbutused.Nowonderthatweallclingtothelongingfmotherlyloveaschildrenalsoasadults.Therelationshiptofatherisquitedifferent.Motheristhehomewecomefromsheisnaturesoiltheoceanfatherdoesnotrepresentanysuchnaturalhome.Hehaslit

16、tleconnectionwiththechildinthefirstyearsofhislifehisimptancefthechildinthisearlyperiodcannotbecomparedwiththatofmother.Butwhilefatherdoesnotrepresentthenaturalwldherepresentstheotherpoleofhumanexistencethewldofthoughtofm

17、anmadethingsoflawderofdisciplineoftraveladventure.Fatheristheonewhoteachesthechildwhoshowshimtheroadintothewld.Fatherlyloveisconditionallove.Itsprincipleis“1loveyoubecauseyoufulfillmyexpectationsbecauseyoudoyourdutybecau

18、seyouarelikeme.“Inconditionalfatherlylovewefindaswithunconditionalmotherlyloveanegativeapositiveaspect.Thenegativeaspectistheveryfactthatfatherlylovehastobedeservedthatitcanbelostifonedoesnotdowhatisexpected.Thepositives

19、ideisequallyimptant.SincehisloveisconditionalIcandosomethingtoacquireitIcanwkfithisloveisnotoutsideofmycontrolasmotherlyloveis.母愛和父愛母愛的天性是無條件的。母親愛她的新生嬰兒，因?yàn)槟鞘撬暮⒆樱皇且驗(yàn)檫@個(gè)小孩符合了什么特別的條件，也不是因?yàn)楹⒆舆_(dá)到了她的某種特別的期望。無條件的愛符合——不只是小孩子，而且